Shared Moments: ‘keep talking sez Oliver’ written by Oliver Cross

It’s fortunate that we, meaning people living in Yorkshire or similar counties, if there are such things, now have only one infection to worry about. We can reasonably expect not to be felled by smallpox polio, TB, diphtheria or any of teeming diseases that once shadowed our lives.

So, along with the amazing progress of the Covid vaccines, we should all be as cheerful as Pollyanna on a good day. It’s sad  that we’re not and it’s largely, I think, because we’ve accepted the notion that physical disease and mental disease cannot be separated, so that even if we don’t die of Covid or find ourselves permanently disabled by it, we can still find something to moan about.

Of course, physical and mental health are very much connected but to force them both into the same playground, under the vague and modish heading of ‘wellbeing’, doesn’t help.

Mental diseases can be alarmingly acute and life-threatening, as much as strokes or heart attacks; they can also be destructive and debilitating on a less violent level but the usual mental effects of the pandemic –  the ones that people complain about on just about every radio call-in show all day and all night – are in a different class.

Anxiety over the possibility of losing your job, natural distress over the early loss of a parent, insomnia or depression are not, in most cases, medical or psychiatric problems because they don’t have professional solutions. They are, like indigestion or low-grade mouth ulcers, part of life. They lie within the is the remit of not being dead.

Dr Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) suffered crushing episodes of depression and was beset by so many verbal and physical tics that, if you didn’t know he was the wisest man in the land, you would have gone to great lengths to avoid eye-contact.

He also, I think, had the best the best advice for people who want to improve their mental state without recourse to drugs, mindfulness classes or other unnecessary expenditure: ‘If you are idle, be not solitary; if you are solitary, be not idle.’ In other words keep busy and keep talking.

Johnson would sometimes turn up uninvited at Covent Garden market after a troubled night and take his mind off things by helping early-morning fruit and veg traders to set up their stalls (they didn’t mind; he was a big, energetic man and good at arranging vegetables).

On his journey to the Western Islands of Scotland he employed a translator (the islanders didn’t generally speak English) to answer questions about, for example, where they got their food or, which started an interesting controversy, who made their shoes.

He did not use ‘talking therapies’ in the modern sense; he was not interested in examining his own ego. But he did perhaps find talking, particularly to strangers with experiences other than his own, therapeutic – the best way to stop the demons which would otherwise be tormenting him.

Which, since we’ve all served our time in solitary, is a very good reason to get back to the pub.

THE SHOW MUST GO ON! – LIVE AT THE PALACE THEATRE

Featuring performances from many great musicals and broadcasting LIVE from the West End on Sunday 6th June at 7pm (Will be available to view for 7 days afterwards)

Presented by Theatre Support Fund+, The Shows Must Go On! and National Theatre Live, the world’s most iconic musicals return to the West End stage with a stunning concert performance that audiences can watch from the comfort of their homes for free.

Optional donations will go to Acting for Others & Fleabag Support Fund.

‘Volunteers Week’ thanks from local Councillors

Dear all,
Councillor Abigail Marshall Katung wanted me to share this message in relation to ‘Volunteers Week’.

Message to our volunteers from:

Councillor Abigail Marshall Katung,  Cllr Kayleigh Brooks & Cllr Javaid Akhtar
“Just to say a huge thank you to all of you and all the wonderful volunteers we have serving throughout each year and especially in the last very difficult year. We truly appreciate you all and looking forward to when things are normal we can all meet again properly and celebrate being alive and to say thank you to you all” 

World Triathlon comes to Leeds this weekend

The World Triathlon is being hosted in Leeds for the fifth time this weekend It is taking place over June 5 and June 6, and all of the races start and finish in Roundhay Park for the first time.

This means there will be a number of road closures and the details are on  Leeds City Council’s interactive map.  Information about changes to bus services is  here

Only a limited area, within the park, will remain open to the public – and Leeds City Council is encouraging people to choose one of Leeds’ other great parks instead,  pedestrian access will be available via the entrances at Park Lane, Mansion Lane and Wetherby Road.

Thousands of athletes are set to compete, from amateurs to elites, and for the first time elite paratriathletes will also be taking to the start line, as the event hosts the World Triathlon Para Series.

However, due to Covid-19 restrictions, the event space within Roundhay Park, is limited so if you wanted to go and watch you would need to book a ticket and there are only a few left https://www.festivaloftriathlon.co.uk/enter-now/

‘Volunteers Week’

About Volunteers' Week – Volunteers' Week

We are delighted to have the spotlight on our volunteers this week (although for us it is all year round), for volunteers week. And this includes those who usually volunteer but were not able to due to Coronavirus. From all at Caring Together we are sending a heartfelt thanks to you all for being a valued part of our organisation and the community. We salute you all and hope you enjoyed your chocolate treat with your thank you card :). We look forward to celebrating together again soon.

Eyes down for Bingo from our new base last Wednesday

We had bingo in our new premises last week, as well as online. It felt lovely to be slowly using the space as well as being online. It was also an impromptu iPad/Zoom training session beforehand. Those who joined us in the office made themselves at home; got a cuppa and washed up afterwards too 🙂 Prizes will be on their way to the lucky winners in the coming weeks.
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“it was a good afternoon full of surprises and new ways of getting together” .
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If you wish to join us for the next one in June just call me: Lisa 07436 530073, or email: lisa@caringtogether.org.uk.

Celebrate PRINCE and PURPLE RAIN – Fri 28th May 2021 7:00PM

Headingley Enterprise & Arts Centre, Headingley, LS6 3HN
PRINCE – PURPLE RAIN –  Fri 28th May 2021 7:00PM
5 years on – come and celebrate his life and music with this great musical/live musical experience that is Purple Rain.
Purple Rain: Dir. Albert Magnoli//Stars Prince, Apollonia Kotero, Morris Day//111 mins.//Cert.15//
A young musician, tormented by an abusive situation at home, must contend with a rival singer, a burgeoning romance, and his own dissatisfied band, as his star begins to rise.
Introduction: 7pm
Screening: 7.30pm
Tickets £4 available from HEART reception and online:

 https://www.ticketsource.co.uk/date/t-xkqqak

Numbers restricted. Social distancing is required.

Event Details

Starts at 7:00PM

Location

Headingley Enterprise & Arts Centre, Headingley, LS6 3HN

image sourced from rolling stone.com

Kirkstall Abbey Deli Market is back!

 

Free but you do have to book a ticket so that numbers can be controlled for social distancing

Book a free ticket here https://www.leedstownhall.co.uk/w…/kirkstall-abbey-markets/…

Set in the beautiful surroundings of Kirkstall Abbey, we’re delighted to welcome back local suppliers, makers and creatives to our ruins as part of the first market of 2021.

Buy locally and choose from a variety of products, supporting local businesses who will be supplying hand-made crafts, produce and ready-to-eat food and drinks.

You may come and go as many times as you like within your timeslot.

Kirkstall Abbey Markets are back! Set in the beautiful surroundings of Kirkstall Abbey

Movement and music…

We all enjoyed another full packed day of exercise, fun and chatter this Tuesday. With some joining us online too. Dom of RJC Dance kept us moving in the morning for two individual sessions and Julie in the afternoon for another.

Call or email me if you wish to join: Lisa 07436 530073, or email: lisa@caringtogether.org.uk

 

 

 

 

 

Street Art Stroll in Hyde Park

What a glorious afternoon for our hunt for street art in the Hyde Park area and an alleged Banksy.

We also got to meet another artist Jahoer (www.jahoer.co.uk) creating some art on the Vegan cafe wall, with their permission, in Hyde Park. We are going to give it a try next time and hopefully see the completed piece.

If you wish to join us on other walks call me: Lisa 07436 530073, or email: lisa@caringtogether.org.uk