Shared Moments: Christmas in September? written by Maureen Kershaw

As we rumble along into Autumn, my favourite Season (followed by Spring), there is certainly a ‘feel’ about the days. Early morning dew on the grass, the sun low in the sky making for difficult crossing of roads by pedestrians, as we’re unable to lower a visor as vehicle drivers can. Doesn’t it get dark early as well? ! On my visit to ‘Home Bargain’s this week, there was a lot of stock-shifting to new aisles so the hanging signs bore no resemblance to what was on offer on the stands. Biscuits were not made by ‘Fox’s’ but more likely to be ‘Harrington’s’ for our four-legged friends.

Of course there’s a change round – Christmas! It is early September after all. Row upon row of colour co-ordinated glitter reindeer and ‘Santas’ but who actually buys these particular items in September I wonder? I know it’s what happens in retail, get everything out on the shop floor now because there’s plenty more to follow. I have purchased the occasional bauble myself if finding something unusual in an independent shop is espied. I do like to add another couple each year to my collection too. The only problem with buying ‘Christmas’ too early is, chances are come the day for the big ‘decorate’ and lights switch-on, will I remember where I put them? A couple of years ago I bought two very elegant baubles on a November visit to Scarborough – which turned up in the following March.

Christmas cards can be another problem. I rarely go specifically to buy cards, preferring to purchase when I’m drawn to particular ones at some other time. They too can be put away somewhere I know I will be able to find – but I don’t. Then there is the matter of buying these and those to ensure I have enough, only to find when opening the boxes containing ‘Christmas’, the abundance of unopened packs  ‘lost and found’ or just surplus to requirements.

Leftover gift wrap can be carefully secured with rubber bands and stored, to be usually thrown away the following year when discovering it hasn’t been packed for the better. Curling ribbon is found in a squashed condition so hits the bin and as for all those stick-on bows….. whenever am I going to use all the existing stocks? I still have an unopened tube of gold bows from ‘Clinton’s’ – the Headingley branch which was converted to either ’02’ or ‘Costa’ several years ago.  On a recent visit to ‘The Works’ I was almost tempted to make my own cards  but thought better of it. Acknowledging the days are not long enough as it is for all I have to do, when can I make Christmas cards?  I still haven’t contacted friends and aquaintances I promised to during Lockdown. Oh dear – and here we are hurtling along into Autumn. Sorry ‘Home Bargains’ I will not be venturing down your (or anyone else’s)  Christmas aisle – I want to enjoy the beauty of Autumn. Hopefully the glorious hues of the changing leaves will be set against a backdrop of blue skies and sunshine. If it rains then I MAY get out the Christmas boxes and take stock. Who knows what I may find?

Thank you Maureen, until next time….

Poetry Corner: ‘Confessions Of A Serial Plant Killer’ written by Cynthia C. Naspinski

Oh, I wish that I had a green thumb.
All my houseplants are looking quite glum.
I never can tell
Why they’re looking unwell
Or why so many succumb.

Have I failed to give enough water?
Have I watered them more than I oughta?
Are they getting too hot?
Is this not the right spot?
It’s like sending poor lambs to the slaughter.

The hard, undeniable fact is
Many succulents, ferns and a cactus,
A begonia, a fig,
Many palms, small and big,
Have been victims of my malpractice.

I confess I’m a serial killer.
Many end up as mulch or land filler.
I kill far more plants
Than snails, thrips or ants.
Or an army of green caterpillar!

Though houseplants are deemed beneficial,
Should these perish, then it is official:
I’ll waste no more dough
Just to watch ’em die slow,
For my next plants will be artificial!

Source: https://www familyfriendpoems com/poem/confessions-of-a-serial-plant-killer

‘Online Cancer Awareness Session’ Monday 2nd Nov @ 11am

‘Online Cancer Awareness Session’ Monday 2nd Nov @ 11am
Caring Together will be hosting a Cancer Awareness session in partnership with the Leeds Cancer Awareness Project on Monday 2nd Nov 2020 @ 11am. This will be online and offers you a chance to chat about signs and symptoms of cancer.
They will also discuss self-checking and ways to reduce cancer risk. All very informative and open to all; members, family, friends, neighbours and volunteers. If you would like to join us then please email: lisa@caringtogether.org.uk or call: 07436 530073 – if you don’t have the technology yet would like to chat further about this subject then please call.
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‘Monday Mind Workout’ – Monday 26th October 2020

Dear all,
Today’s ‘Monday Mind workout’ is ‘loosely’ themed around Halloween, good luck.
1.In which country did Halloween originate?
a) America   b) Ireland   d) England
2.What sweet treat is often made for Halloween using butter, molasses and sugar?
a) Cinder toffee  b) Chewy Toffee   c) Bonfire toffee
3.From which words did ‘bonfire’ originate?
Bone Fire or Bonnet
4.Out of which vegetable were Jack O’Lanterns originally made from?
a) Carrots   b) Turnip   c) Melon
5. From which region in the world do pumpkins originate?
a) Egypt   b) UK   c) Central America
6. Which actor played Frank n Furter in Rocky Horror Picture Show?
a) Tim Curry   b) Barry Bostwck   c) Richard O’Brien
7. Is a pumpkin a fruit or vegetable?
8.Which film has as its main characters, Morticia and Gomez?
a) The Addams Family   b) Halloween   c) Haunted House
8.What is Samhainophobia?
a) A fear of bonfires   b) A fear of going out   c) A fear of Halloween
9. How do pumpkins grow?
a) on trees   b) on vines   c) stalks
10. What do people bob for on Halloween?
a) apples   b) oranges   c) money
11.Which film from 1987 stars Jack Nicholson, and Cher, Susan Sarandon, and Michelle Pfeiffer as three single women who experiment with some powers?
a) The Shining   b) The Witches of Eastwick   c) Wolf
12.On which date does Halloween fall?
a) October 31st   b) October 26th    c) October 30th
13. Which song was a 1973 hit for Bobby “Boris” Pickett and the Crypt-Kickers? (Lyric clue: It was a graveyard smash.)
14.Shakespeare’s three witches from Macbeth were also known as . . . what?
a) The Wonderful three   b) The Scary Sisters   c) The Weird Sisters
Listed below are five anagrams of words you might associate with Halloween:
15) pink ump (You might have carved one of these!)
16) tarot tricker (A common phrase)
17) rural peanuts (an otherworldly experience!)
18) agent verso (a burial monument)
19) tepid fire (really scared!)
20) rosiest input (perhaps involving a Black Cat!)

The Shows Must Go On – The War of the Worlds

Jeff Wayne’s ‘The War of The Worlds’ and ‘The Shows Must Go On’ proudly presents the 2012 live performance, filmed at London’s O2 Arena with 23 cameras for spectacular visual coverage. With an array of new technology and effects plus an all-star cast featuring: Liam Neeson seen in advanced 3D holography, recording, stage and screen star Jason Donovan, Kaiser Chiefs’ Ricky Wilson, Wet Wet Wet’s Marti Pellow, Jettblack’s Will Stapleton and Wicked’s Kerry Ellis. The 9-piece Black Smoke Band and the symphonic ULLAdubULLA Strings conducted by Jeff Wayne – PLUS the incredible 3-tonne 35-foot tall Martian Fighting Machine firing real Heat Ray flames over the audience.

Premieres at 7pm tonight (Friday 23rd October) and available to watch for 48 hours (click on the picture to watch)

Caring Together AGM 2019-2020

We have just had our AGM, which covers April 2019 to March 2020. We normally would have met together to celebrate our year and look ahead to the next. And we would have also had lunch afterwards however this did not deter us. Some of us still got together and we even delivered some sandwich packs to their doors.
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Thank you to everyone who joined us, your uplifting and inspiring words were welcome. A big thanks also goes to all those who support our work, past and present. To members, volunteers, neighbours, friends, family, the community and partners thank you for the last 25 years.
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Attached is a copy of our AGM and a video which I brought together for the AGM, it offers a reflective look back and bit of where we are now.  What an interesting year, lots of challenges, yet also some fun times too, and tonnes of partnership working and ‘Caring Together’, which we hope to continue building on. We were also presented with three awards for our services in the community, we are so proud and humble to get this, what a wonderful community. Kindest regards, Lisa Argyle
     

 

Supported Living and Accommodation for Deaf Adults with Additional Need

Homelife is a Deaf-led organisation based in Leeds that provides supported living support and accommodation for Deaf adults with additional needs.

The organisation offers:

24 hour wellbeing support

Tailor-made packages of care and support

Aids and adaptations in all its properties

Signing environment

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Development of skills to enable independence

Contact Homelife: Faye Dawson – Service Manager on 0113 4433543 or 07784 245631, fdawson.homelife@outlook.com or Edward Pollard – Registered Manager on 07817 282826 (text only), edwardpollard@live.co.uk.  http://www.homelife-leeds.co.uk/

Picnic in the park on a hot sunny day. Yes please

Share your views or experiences of health and care

Healthwatch Leeds has teamed up with Leeds Older Peoples Forum to ask older people what are your experiences of health and care. They would love to hear about the health and care experiences of people aged 60+ who live in Leeds. If you want to  take the survey please use this link here

Healthwatch Leeds was established in April 2013 to bring the voices and experiences of local people to influence the decisions made in their health and care. They use citizens voices and experiences to work to influence planners, decision makers and service providers in Leeds.

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Shared Moments: ‘Trains’ written by Maureen Kershaw

Day 158 – My escapades with air travel didn’t take long so here we are at Trains. Trains were always a fascination of mine from a very early age. Having a family car there was never the need to travel by train, but I was always nattering Mum and Dad to take me for a train ride. Living near the Leeds to Harrogate line, there were trains up and down many times a day. On a morning I would awaken to the sound of shunting at the goods yard, but the real yearning was for passenger trains. At 11.30am each day when playing out in the street or on Burley Park any of my fellow train loving chums and I would run to the wall by the ‘little bridge’. The ‘tooting’ would herald the arrival of the mighty ‘double header’ – two steam engines pulling the maroon liveried coaches on its daily journey to Newcastle. We would wave to the engine drivers and behind them, the passengers sitting at their tables on the ‘big train’. If out for a run  in the car east of Leeds,  we would stop at Church Fenton and watch the trains from the bridge above but Harrogate was just the best as one could go onto the platforms and if lucky would see the ‘Pullman’ parked up. To this day I’ve never experienced Pullman travel but I loved the brown and cream carriages with their curtains tied back, the tables laid with crisp white damask cloths and the table lamps with decorative shades. In those days – the 1950s – there were three classes of travel – apart from the Pullman; first class – No!, 2nd – where Dad and I would travel, and even 3rd class!

At the time Leeds had another Station besides the ‘City’ – that of the ‘Central’ on Wellington Street. The City Station was always my favourite though with its large concourse and booking hall, thankfully saved from being used an indoor car park and restored to its former glory. Where now stand the variety of eateries, then were small doorways where one would enter the particular platform needed. There were machines for platform tickets, I think it was only an old penny or maybe 2d to purchase a ticket. Also one of those machines with which to print a metal strip with your name on – or whatever one required. A red machine if I remember correctly with a sort of clockface dial but with the alphabet. One turned the handle round and then activated the machine to print.  Trainspotters would buy a platform ticket, armed with their pencils and notepads and if lucky a camera, together with meals of the day as the ticket covered all day. Mainly though the ticket would enable one to bid farewell to someone taking a journey. I can remember both a joyous and sad occasion when platform tickets were purchased for a send off, even boarding until the announcement came that the train was about to depart.

I boarded a Glasgow train with Mum & Dad to send off my Sister and her family who were bound for a cruise. An educational cruise on an ex-troop ship, the “Dunera” sailing to the Med. from Greenock, the Port of Glasgow. Only a handful of general passengers taking the cruise besides the schoolchildren, the youngest passenger being my eighteen  month old nephew.The crew eventually found a small enough lifejacket for John and spoiled him rotten! The sad occasion was in 1966 when I was leaving for  Norway to stay with a family of Norwegian friends. Mum and Dad bought their platform tickets to bid me “Bon Voyage” on the Boat Train to Newcastle and I sat in the compartment with a couple from Ormskirk, a place I hadn’t heard of at the time but always connected with the couple when mentioned since. I say sad as Dad was dying from bowel cancer, there being no treatment then and as the train slowly pulled away we waved to each other, I was feeling upset but Dad was crying as he felt he wouldn’t see me again. He passed away shortly after I returned home.

BUT – back to trains and Boat Trains, yes they were something special in days gone by. My train to Newcastle went directly to the Tyne Commission Quay from where the ‘Fred Olsen’ ships sailed to Oslo but my travelling companions were heading for Bergen with a crossing on Bergen Line’s “Venus”.  Nowadays there are no Boat Trains; if sailing from Newcastle or Hull it is a standard train with a connection to the Docks by double decker bus. As a child though listening to my Grandma speaking of her family travelling overseas from Hampshire and Surrey, their journeys always started with a Boat Train to Southampton or Tilbury Docks.

Prior to Dr Beeching closing hundreds of stations throughout the Country, so many places could be reached by steam train and I suppose the early days of ‘diesel’.  Arthington, Otley, Wetherby…. but also Kirkstall. Visiting my paternal Grandma for Sunday lunch, we would catch a bus to town, take the train to Kirkstall and walk the short distance to Broadlea Crescent, returning on the 77 bus back to Burley. It all seemed so simple then – well it was. Public transport by Leeds City Transport, Sammy Ledgards Et al, with conductors to assist and calm any nonsense on board and trains run by ‘British Rail’ with their Guards and Controller lookalikes! The good old days of steam, diesels, reliable times and straightforward ticketing – ‘British Rail’!

More to follow……

Thank you Maureen for sharing your heartfelt personal moments, until next time…

Leeds City Station: Concourse. 1952. | Leeds city, Leeds, City

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Poetry Corner: ‘Time’ written by Erin Friedrichs

‘Time’
The question that is asked the most; we hear it everyday,
“What time Is it?” they want to know, and then they go away.
It’s time for bed, it’s time for work, or time to feed the fishes,

It’s time to take your medicine, or wash and dry the dishes.
Time in seconds, time in hours, so many freckles past a hair,
depending on the zone, or whether daylights savings there.
Time is measured many ways from minutes to months,
Time is what keeps everything from happening at once!

A time to live, a time to die, a time for having fun,
Clocks and calenders alike, all scheduled by the sun.
Intervals that can’t be hurried, will not be denied,
a season that we know that’s coming, as surely as the tide.

If there ever comes a time when time will be no more,
I wonder how we’ll know to quit, or when it was before.
Do we hurry? Do we loaf? It depends upon the time…
Had we started earlier, we’d be finished with this rhyme.

Source: https://www familyfriendpoems com/poem/time-8

ps. clocks go back 1 hour at 2am this Sunday 25th October 2020.